Latest Nigerian News, Naija Music, Gist & Tatafo

Ladies Stop saying these 5 things if you value your relationship


Women are recognized for being very emotional, and this often affects the things they say.

This happens especially when their emotions are running high, be it in anger, fear, jealousy or… every other thing that makes women emotional.

However, no matter how emotional you are, saying some things to your boo might ruin your relationship permanently, even though you did not really the words.

So, be careful to stop yourself from saying these things from this moment.

“If you don’t love me again just say it”

The very fact that he is misbehaving or not giving you the things you want from him does not mean that he is no longer interested in you.

See This:  The best questions to ask on that first date

It could be that he has some other issues he is trying to handle without involving you.

Just cut him some slack, stop badgering him to tell you something you really do not want to hear.

“Do what you want I don’t care”

From experience, when women say this they never mean it.

However, repeating this all the time to your partner might actually make him believe that you indeed do not care.

If he indeed does what he wants, it might be the end of that relationship.

“I want out”

Be careful what you wish for.

Words said in anger might be excused when said once. Repeatedly saying you are no longer in the relationship might eventually cause your partner to let go of you.

See This:  Uche Maduagwu Says He’s Running For Anambra 2017 Governorship Election

Do not cry foul when this happens.

“I wish I never met you”

This is a downright hurtful, terrible thing to say.

Throwing this at your partner at every opportunity you get will cause him to get tired of you and of move on to someone else who won’t regret his presence all the time.

“The silent treatment”

The worst thing to  apart from these things listed above is to not say anything at all.

No matter the temptation to just sit and say nothing despite there being a lot to say and rant about.

Giving him the silent treatment will cause emotions and unsaid words to pile up over time, and by the time they come bursting out, the damage done might be beyond repair.

See This:  5 signs that say your man is a real 'mummy's boy'

Having said all these, the best way to ensure that communication between you and your partner is kept healthy is to be positive, thoughtful and considerate of his feelings when communicating with him.