“Resist the urge to explain” – Toke Makinwa advises
Nigerian lifestyle vlogger, Toke Makinwa has advised her colleagues and teeming fans to resist the urge to explain themselves to people.
The On air personality opined that people should allow others think whatever they want, as explaining will not make them hate them any less.
Taking to Twitter, she wrote,
“Resist the urge to explain. Those who love you don’t need a reason to love you and those who don’t will never believe you anyway, catch yourself before you start to ro ejo unnecessarily, save your peace. Let whoever think whatever, just keep doing you.”
In other news, Toke Makinwa has urged fans not to always try to be strong as they are humans and should admit they can get hurt and feel pain some times.
The controversial OAP, admonished fans in a series of tweets to allow themselves to be emotional sometimes as even in moments of hurt, the last thing they will do is to pray.
According to the once divorced socialite, it is very normal for one to feel disappointed, betrayed and feel a loss, however, that feelings does not make you weak because it proves that you are human.
In her words;
All that stay strong, trust God, don’t lose faith talk is not without days of real pain, days when praying is the last thing you feel like doing, days when your faith is totally gone, it is part of it, life is a journey. Feel your emotions in peace
Nobody knows how long the affliction of Job lasted for, we are told he never cursed or doubted God, he was strong, etc but I’m sure he had days of immense sadness, disappointment, bitterness and pain too. It’s all part of it, let yourself feel all that emotion, u are human”.